I'm speaking about standing up for yourselves when it comes to sports, bathrooms, locker rooms, showers and similar being single-sex places -- and note I said sex, not "gender."

We men tried.  We warned you.  We told you what we were like when we were 13.  We weren't lying when we said we'd fuck almost-anything on two legs that had a vagina at that age without a care in the world.  That's not because men are horrible, its because of this thing called testosterone that we don't know a lot about when we're 10 or 12 but around 13ish we have to figure it out and it fucks our brains up for a while.

Some men not only never figure it out they become extremely aggressive about it, including criminally aggressive, and don't give a shit what women (or other, sane men) think about that.

We warned you about this because we've all seen it among other men we have known.

By the way, this is one reason you never want to have kids without a father in the house. He's the only one qualified to explain to either boys or girls exactly what the above means and to issue appropriate cautions on that phenomena.  If you think that's unimportant you need only look to outcomes in places where men have been driven out of the home by public policy to see the result.

Today you look around some "dating site" allegedly for heterosexual connections and what do you find?  Women with their pronouns in their profiles listing things like "immigrant rights" and "LGTBQRSTUV++++" as their "causes."  This, even after Laken Riley was murdered and attempted to be raped first by one of those "immigrants" these very same women want to protect!

This is flat-out insanity; in what world does a person who wants a heterosexual relationship have a reason to campaign for the 2% (or whatever it is) of people who genuinely are homosexual -- unless, of course she is and is lying about it?  What woman wants to be raped and/or murdered by an "immigrant"?  You have to be out of your fucking mind to campaign for that.  And let's cut the crap on the entire "trans" thing; if you're a man, want to make yourself look like a woman and then sleep with a man you're not "trans" -- you're GAY and unhappy about expressing that in public.

I don't give a wet shit whether you are or not gay, incidentally, except that as a man I have zero sexual attraction to men.  It doesn't matter what characteristics a specific man has, I don't want to sleep with him.  Period.  This, incidentally, is why I appreciate the perspective that if you're gay you're not going to change either; I'm straight and have never had a sexual attraction to any man, ever, so its entirely reasonable for me to conclude that if you bat for the other team its the same situation.  A man can cut off his dick and sew on a pair of fake tits and I still will not want to sleep with him because he is still a man and nothing he can do will change that.  If he lies about being a woman then it matters not what sex that person is whether I'm heterosexual or gay because someone who is going to lie to me in a sexual relationship is someone I want nothing to do with since I'm not 13 anymore where the primary testosterone-driven item of attention was "is it human and does it have a hole in the right place?"  Further, if you as a person cannot be honest with yourself about the most-fundamental and immutable characteristic you have, and its not rare either -- fully half of the human race shares it -- then I sure as FUCK will not trust you in any sort of business or other personal relationship.

All degrees of honesty must first filter through you being honest with yourself; absent that you're less capable of honesty than is a dog who eats the steak off your plate when you go to take a piss.  At least the dog is honest enough with itself, when you come back and the steak is no longer on the plate, to know what it did was wrong.

By the way pheromone-level attraction is not able to be turned off and faking it is a really bad idea because it is at the core of mutual satisfaction over time.  Oh you can fuck it up if you're a woman by taking birth control for yourself which has a good chance of leading to extreme emotional pain down the road, because if you do that, get involved with a man and then stop using the hormonal birth control or change its composition there is a decent set of odds that you will wake up one morning hating the man you are laying next to with absolutely no way to understand why and no way to fix it.  An utterly huge part of sexual attraction is subconscious and either is or is not there and fucking around with that is a very bad idea for what should be obvious reasons.

Incidentally this is inherent in any sort of hormonal tampering as a tool of sex denial too since exactly zero of that is naturally occurring so you're begging for any such "attraction" someone feels for you in a sexual context to be artificial and disappear the moment you make any sort of change in that regard -- whether deliberately or not.

Why isn't that front and center of these discussions and debates?  It damn well should be because those who have reinforced the idea that they'll be "happier", including personal interaction with others, are being sold a knowingly-false bill of goods.

Of course if your idea of sexual attraction is either business-like or transactional, and for some people it is, none of this matters.  There are a lot of people out there like that, by the way.  But if you'd like to grow old with someone it sure as hell does matter.

The problem is this: Women are the ones who pushed this shit, overwhelmingly vote for it and make a public, performative display of supporting it.  Further, black women in this last election voted for Harris 85% of the time.  Look at who shows up for these rallies and pushes this crap -- it's nearly all women -- and the "men" look and act like women.  But even among all women the margin for Harris was roughly 10% and it is the Democrats, literally without exception, that are the reason queers are in women's locker rooms, beating women and girls at running, crowning them in volleyball matches with spikes to the face and similar bullshit, all of which any sane man would tell you is crap, should never be allowed and should be considered a criminal assault.

Worse, if we men dare suggest this is wrong on a physiological basis and utterly unsupportable, stating the truth about the entire "trans" thing we're called bigots, fired, canceled and otherwise shunned by the very women we men would seek to protect.

And further, this SJSU garbage that having a man on their women's team "hurt nobody" and thus "all those hateful messages are wrong" is a fucking lie.  It sure did hurt people -- specifically, the woman -- the actual woman -- who didn't get a scholarship, worth tens of thousands of dollars so SJSU could CHEAT by putting a biological MAN on the team.  FUCK YOU AND FUCK EVERY SINGLE PERSON WHO SUPPORTS THAT SHIT.  SJSU should be destroyed for doing this in the first place and every one of their graduates blackballed from employment forever.  Make them ALL pay for not putting a stop to it.  SJSU wants to force collective acceptance?  Fuck that -- we can force collective punishment and we damn well should do it right now in every single instance until this crap stops.

Women have a monopoly on possession of a uterus and there is no way to change that.  I've no quarrel with it; that's how it is and not just among humans -- it is true among every sexually-reproducing species.  But I will not defend women in this regard if they don't want to be defended and not only call me names they seek to bar me from society because I speak to the fact that there is utterly no justification in reason or fairness to let any of this shit go on.

For any other woman than the very few I have a personal reason to intervene should one of these creeps try this shit will I do so?  Sorry, nope.  I'll walk on by when I see the obvious trans dude or "immigrant" headed into your locker room.

You wanted this, you voted for it, you tolerated it, you even put crap like this in your dating profiles despite espousing that you want a heterosexual partner and further you let those around, you including the entire work environment at every company turn into mandating this anywhere and everywhere in the United States even to the degree of enforcing it by law so suck it up buttercup because you now get to either live in the Hell you deliberately created or YOU must change it.