@Heartlander

Sorry to hear that you feel betrayed by the in laws. Don't fall for the same lie that they did. I saw many who felt it was 'loving' to get jabbed. It was not. It was foolish, but it 'felt' good. They misunderstand what love is and tried to apply it where it didn't/doesn't belong.

That you 'feel' betrayed is just that, a feeling. And just as wrong as their 'feeling' was/is. They did nothing to betray you. Unless, of course, they then changed in their behavior towards you or their requirements for relationship with you. (Which would indeed be, wait for it, UN loving)

Our society is all about the feelz. Many committed Christians have fallen for that line. Instead, recognize how easily you've 'almost' fallen for the Feelz (of Betrayal) and give grace to them as being a bit imperfect themselves.

Now, if they have lorded it over you, placed restrictions or guilt on your relationship over it, then I'd posit they know nothing of Love AND it's less about betrayal than about drawing boundaries on your part.

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I remember the Diamond Princess.


Slowly at first, then all of a sudden.