@Whitehat
I am a woman (and you know I am an attorney too). You did well. Very well. No "real woman" would want a trapped by pregnancy type of relationship. It isn't healthy for anyone. A family member married his wife on the bet that he could get her in bed. He won the bet and has been in a miserable marriage for his entire life. Yes, she got pregnant and they got married. He realized years later that she was not the best he could have done as a life partner. She was "hot" and he was a young man feeling his oats. Can't fix stupid. I appreciated your story. Cautionary tale.