''That makes YOU a pussy and unfit as well - as the head of a family or anything else.''

yes a very astute observation , but in order to solve a problem it helps to define it first as i was attempting to do. Canada, australia , UK , Eu are subject to the same forces.
How much nutting up would you have wanted Trump to do? Hitler and Stalin were very good at nutting up, JFK nutted up with his life. How many kudos/reforms did that achieve ? Are americans worth it ?
The subject is now moot in any case.